The Lagoon

Anonymous sent: You are pretty damn awesome. I like you. Like, not entirely sure how I do. But you are really fantastic. And very pretty.

Ahhhhh. 

You are really fantastic, anon. Thank you. <33333333

Anonymous sent: About 99% sure that the girl's question wasn't even about shipping, but she was booed too quickly to even complete it.

Oh, well I heard something about “happy about Dean being more comfortable” and her being “bisexual as well” so I just assumed it was some shipping or character sexuality question. 

I don’t think she should have been boo’d, that’s completely unnecessary. But those kinds of questions are extremely uncomfortable for the actors. Plus, it’s not their place to answer since they aren’t the writers of the show. Those kinds of questions are more for writers and honestly, if Edlund was doing the panels I’m sure he’d looooove that type of shit. But he’s not and it’s pretty clear the actors don’t care for them. 

Anonymous sent: dandy kitten, and youself? ;)

Pretty great actually. Finished my shitty semester of college and I have a few great things planned for the next couple weeks. Looking forward to this summer, too. It’s gonna be hot, fun, and the beach is calling my name.

Anonymous sent: ello poppet ;)

Well hello there. (: How have you been?

Anonymous sent: okay so long story short, i dated my ex's best friend. BUT i didn't know they even knew each other. now, months after, the ex's best friend(we broke up b/c it didnt feel right) is now flirting and asking me out and not leaving me alone. and the ex stopped me a week ago and said sorry for having it end badly. so we're friends now. but they're both telling me really nice things but i really don't want to do this again. what should i do? i dont wanna be rude. what should i do? :c

So basically they’re both being flirty with you but you don’t want to date either of them again?

Well you just need to be honest with them. Honesty isn’t rude at all. You just need to tell them that you appreciate their kindness but you’re just not interested in anything more than a friendship. Or hell, if you don’t like the attention just tell them “Hey, I don’t like all the attention you’re giving me” and explain to them you’re just interested in being friends, or if you’re not even wanting that just tell them you’d rather not speak to them anymore. 

Just because you dated them and just because they’re being nice doesn’t mean you own them anything. You gotta do what you want and what you feel is best for you.

Anonymous sent: could i ask for some advice?

Absolutely!

And if you wanna keep it between us, you can come off anon. This is a judgement free zone. 

Anonymous sent: i shoulda wrote that you didnt have to publish it...lol oops

Oh no, that’s not the issue. I wouldn’t have published it if I felt too uncomfortable! I made the post in the first place. 

I guess I’m just being sensitive about it. You didn’t do anything wrong. I was just being a little brat about the word choice because I’m sensitive about that flaw. No need to feel bad or anything.

Anonymous sent: sorry about the "stache" comment.... lol

omggg. asdkfjsdfsda. 

That’s okay. Just for future reference, pick your words more carefully when replying to a post where the poster has written that they’re hyper aware and self conscious about something.